Does D/s Make it Harder to Break-Up?

Channeling Carrie Bradshaw this morning (a la Sex in the City) I was laying in bed this morning thinking how much better/different the beginning of this weekend is than last weekend, and how things can turn around so quickly, in just a few days' time. This morning I feel great! My new office at work is beautiful with a fantastic view..I had a day off this week because of the move, so I got all my housework done on Thursday, so I did not have to get up and start laundry/dishes. I got up this morning and was happy to make breakfast for pet and the kids : ) Sometimes I feel like it is a chore, something I am supposed to do, but this morning it was a real pleasure to cook for my family : ) Everyone woke up hungry and seemed to enjoy the breakfast as well : ) pet and I made love this morning and it was wonderful, and I came hard. I am looking forward to more of that later, as the kids are off to their Mom's soon. I bought myself a new non-stick pan last weekend, and I used it this mornig, it was GREAT! I know, lol, sometimes it is the simplest things that make us happy, right? I feel very lucky and blessed today. My relationship with pet's oldest is back on track, we had a very good talk on Thursday, that did result in some punishment for her, but she took it well, and she knows that her father and I do things out of love for her, not malice.

Last weekend, when things were so bad with anthony and I, and it all came to a head, and I thought we had broken up (anthony says he never thought we were broken up) I find myself going over all that was going through my mind last weekend. It has finally been enough time for me to step back and take a look at how I was feeling when I thought were broken up. Of course, I am ever the practical person, going through my mind was all of the immediate needs. Where I would live, what I would do with my dogs, getting parking at work (because I ride in with anthony right now) etc, etc.

Although I never got this far in my head last weekend, it occurred to me that we are so deeply involved in each other's lives, that I would not even really know how to begin to start over with someone new. I mean, I am sure that I could manage if it became necessary, eventually....

And I wondered? "Does D/s make it harder to break-up?"

I do believe that when you are involved in a D/s relationship, that there is a level of trust and intimacy there that you do not experience in other relationships. At least for me anyway. I am not sure how others feel. But to me, you are soooo deeply involved in each other's minds and psyche that you must have a tighter bond than others. And of course, anthony is the first/only real D/s relationship that I have even been involved in, so I have no idea what it would be like to try and be with someone else in this way. I am not talking about inviting extra folks into our world for play...I am talking about an entire other relationship. I just can't see being this deeply involved, on this intimate level with anyone else. I think D/s adds a dynamic to the relationship that is ultimately harder to "get over." I don't think it would be like a regular break up, where you just don't see each other anymore, I think it would be much more painful, as you involved with each other on such a more intimate level, and higher plane I think. Well, that's just my opinion anyway.

So, those were my thoughts on that topic this morning. There is better stuff to cum in my next post.

Happy Saturday to all!!

-D